so update every night my feet swell up and the pain wakes me up------at 3;49 am and I have to call out  to my husband this causes all kinds of drama because he does not have to get up until 5:00 am these few minutes cause all the trouble in the world!!!!! every night before I  go to sleep he makes me promise that I  will let him sleep through the night  -----I try every night!!!! without success ---new to paralysis caused by brain tumors  HELP!!!! ANY SUGGESTIONS!!!!!